“In disagreements with loved ones, only deal with the present. Do not bring up the past.”
Truth be told, I struggle with this every single day of my life! I have learned to use the past to recognize patterns and cycles to offer a greater perspective to heal and grow from. This makes me an amazing practitioner, and it truly has become apart of who I am.
However, I can see how my work as a healer and practitioner can seep into my personal relationships, and not be such a wonderful quality to experience. I have been on both sides of this equation to receive awareness of this phenomena. There is definitely a fine line between the particle and the wave so to speak. If we are harmonizing with another and we are aware and personally present within this harmony, there cannot be cause for disagreement in the first place.
Practical Soul-U-tion: Offer advice only when it is asked for. Otherwise – hold space, be present and Be Love.
How have you learned to effectively transition between, or to harmoniously incorporate the two?
Any other thoughts or ideas? I would love to hear from you!